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I want to know when I developed the ability to awaken completely a few minutes before the alarm goes off. It's new.
Definite advantages of triad relationships:
-Someone there to notice miscommunication and say "actually, neither of you is mad at the other -- sit down and talk for a minute".
-Doubles your chances of persuading your partner to massage your tight, achy back.
Definite disadvantages:
Dear god do we dirty a lot of dishes and laundry.