So if
kung_fu_monkey, saintpookie, and I ever have some kind of ceremonial occasion to formally celebrate our relationship, we probably won't have groomsmen. Quite aside from the "where do they stand" problem, I'd end up dragging half the guest list up there with me, leaving no-one in the audience...I want to know when I developed the ability to awaken completely a few minutes before the alarm goes off. It's new.
Definite advantages of triad relationships:
-Someone there to notice miscommunication and say "actually, neither of you is mad at the other -- sit down and talk for a minute".
-Doubles your chances of persuading your partner to massage your tight, achy back.
Definite disadvantages:
Dear god do we dirty a lot of dishes and laundry.
